You Own a Lot. Why Are You Still Not Building? Here’s the Step-by-Step Plan You’re not “lazy.” You’re stuck because home building feels like 1,000 decisions with expensive consequences. The fix isn’t motivation. It’s a simple sequence. Step 1: Define the build target (1 day). Lock your floor area and must-haves. Bigger later is easier than “bigger mid-build.” Write two lists: Must-have  and Nice-to-have . Step 2: Align budget with reality (2–3 days). Do a basic BOQ by phase.